Posts tagged ‘a little help from my friends’

May 20, 2011

thursday purgeday: the type a who’d lost her way



If you want a golden rule that will fit everything, this is it: Have nothing in your houses that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful. - William Morris

When Morgan started this Thursday Purgeday project, I was inspired. It had been awhile since I really took a look at this office I call home/home I call office (tomato, tomahto) and did some Spring Cleaning. I likened the Thurs. Purge to having a gym buddy, a way to pressure/inspire/drive me to tidy up a bit. (Tidy up a lot.)

Like a healthy diet/exercise combo, if I was inclined towards that sort of thing, it started off really well. I was shedding papers and clutter. Things were looking good. But now I’ve sort of hit a plateau. I was a Type A who’d lost her way, and now I’m getting back in the swing of things. But I’m not done yet.

I’m clearing out the files and drawers, shredding like mad, and embracing the feng shui principle of allowing good things in by making space for them.

Speaking of feng shui, after reading this article via @JenerationPR, I’ve learned my office is an utter failure when it comes to the ways in which you can embrace the ancient art. Total, absolute failure.

I don’t know if I believe in feng shui. But I don’t think it hurts to consider the possibilities.

Artistic inspiration comes in many forms, and I’ll take what I can get.

So, in the next few weeks I’m playing around with ways to let in more creativity, let go of more clutter, and maybe add a bit more fire, metal and water elements. Because it couldn’t hurt, right?

So stay tuned and please join in the Thursday Purge (click below). Because it takes a village to get any vacuuming done in this place. xo a.


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May 17, 2011

alex was here - pt. 2

Los Angeles is a city looking for a ritual to join its fragments, and The Doors are looking for such a ritual also. A kind of electric wedding. We hide ourselves in the music to reveal ourselves. - Jim Morrison

Los Angeles is seventy-two suburbs in search of a city. – Dorothy Parker

I hate cancer. Hate it more than words can describe. Perhaps only four letter ones suffice.

After I shared the cards in honor of Alex around LA, and Eden and Vee hung his art to the theme of Mission Impossible in Sydney, we received emails and comments from around the world. From those touched by what we did, those touched by his work, those touched by cancer.

I am so honored to have been asked to join in a bit of guerilla art. Even if I couldn’t play Banksy for a day, I was so happy to make the cards. To help share his beautiful work.

I’ve never feared public speaking or talking to strangers but handing out the cards was unlike anything I’ve ever experienced.

I’m a fourth generation Angeleno. I love this town, I do. But it’s a pretty disconnected place sometimes.

I remember as a little girl when I’d visit other cities, other countries, I realized that not every city placed five-foot cinder block walls between residential property. That people really knew their neighbors. The people that you meet when you’re walking down the street weren’t just on Sesame Street – if only you walk down the street. But nobody walks in L.A.


Handing out cards with Alex’s vibrantly-hued artwork, I was lucky if one in six people gave me the time of day. Some truly tested my faith in humanity. And then, others restored it.

Including three different patrolmen, one in plainclothes, the other two uniformed, who stopped at various time to arrest me see what I was up to. Each smiled when I told them. Wished me a good day.

I was stopped by a man offering me a card. He was an evangelical minister. I took it respectfully and gave him one of mine. I may not share his faith, but we were both out there spreading love and compassion in different ways.

love and compassion comes in various paper stock

Some people looked at me and smiled, commenting on the art, the project. A few people thanked me. And I thanked them. It was a mutual appreciation society.

I gave the cards to locals, to tourists, to one Oscar and Tony Award-winning actress.

Alex, sir, your work has gone Hollywood A-List.

At one point my mother joined me in handing out cards. (Quick thank you my family, who helped me get the cards circulating around this giant little trafficky city of 72 suburbs - I couldn’t have done it without you.) I watched as my mother gave them to a man and a woman who took them with great interest. They walked away smiling. Discussing the cards. Discussing Alex. He was in the air all around us.

I emailed with Eden as I headed to the car. The sun was setting on Friday in Los Angeles. She wrote back in the midst of a busy Saturday in Sydney. (The whole opposite hemisphere thing is crazy. She lives in Tomorrowland.)

I had been humbled by the day.

I was swimming in gratitude.

I had seen the angels in this city. xo a.

(I imagine that today, tucked into the corner of a frame, on a fridge, tacked to a corkboard, Alex’s art is bringing a bit of beauty to someone’s world. THINK BIG as the piece says. THINK BIG.)





April 20, 2011

five great things someone else said: vol. 5

Marlene Dietrich had it right when she said, “It’s the friends you can call up at 4 a.m. that matter.”

I wonder if I often say it enough, how I am grateful for those 4 a.m. friends. Sometimes those 4 a.m. calls might arrive at noon on a Tuesday or late on a Friday night, but no matter the hour, through the highest highs and lowest lows, I am grateful to know they’re there for me, and I’m there for them, on the other end of the line.

In honor of those 4 a.m.-ers, here’s four more great things someone else said about friendship. And, thank you for being a friend.

We are friends for life. When we’re together the years fall away. Isn’t that what matters? To have someone who can remember with you? To have someone who remembers how far you’ve come? – Judy Blume

We are all travelers in the wilderness of this world, and the best we can find in our travels is an honest friend. - Robert Louis Stevenson

The most beautiful discovery true friends make is that they can grow separately without growing apart. - Elizabeth Foley

I do not wish to treat friendships daintily, but with the roughest courage. When they are real, they are not glass threads or frost-work, but the solidest thing we know. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

April 18, 2011

Be The Change: A Lullaby, A Giveaway

Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It’s not. - Dr. Seuss

If you think you are too small to be effective, you have never been in bed with a mosquito. - Betty Reese

(TEENSY UPDATE: I’m blaming Mercury in Retrograde, Passover, Easter, and a slew of other things, but this is going to be a chaotic week. So, This giveaway will go through Wednesday. xo a.)

I grew up in a family that has always been involved with non-profit organizations – from fundraising to helping coordinate events to serving on boards of directors – my entire life I was taught that that we truly must be the change we want to see in the world. Because it is ours to do.

And I learned very early on that the real work, the real rewards, come behind the scenes. And that work is unpaid, long hours filled with passion and frustration and late night brainstorming sessions, and brilliant inspiration, and collapsing in gleeful exhaustion once an event has ended.

And the events always end. And the generous supporters return to their daily to-dos - life goes on for them. But for those we’ve supported through cocktail parties and telethons and 10Ks and benefits, they return to the same lives and same struggles they faced the day before.

I’ve known Morgan of the818 most of my life. I have never met Getty Emilia Storm. But I think they are both extraordinary. Morgan for spearheading the cause inspired by little Getty. Getty, and her family, for bringing the realities of SMA into the consciousness of people everywhere.

And to Angela and Alex Dezen, who could have more than content making people happy with their music as The Damnwells. Who chose to make an album that brought beautiful music into the world for the greater good of Getty and all SMA families.

For Morgan and Getty and Angela and Alex – and sooo many others – the release of Lullabies for Getty was not a one-day deal. And that is why we must keep spreading the word about this album.

Supporting causes close to my heart has allowed me to do some pretty cool things in my life. I’ve met inspiring, incredible people. I’ve traveled. I’ve been in the circus.

I’ve found myself humbled in ways I never imagined. I’ve learned the meaning of gratitude. Of generosity. Of hope. Why is it that in giving I always feel I am the one who receives?

I’m giving away a copy of Lullabies for Getty on iTunes.

I am grateful to the people who worked to make this album possible. I am grateful for the fact that the Storm family fights to be the change in SMA. I still can’t believe that supporting SMA means we get the gift of this gorgeous music.

To enter, tweet or Facebook post a link about Lullabies for Getty and share it with me, here and I’ll announce the winner on Wednesday night.

If you already have the album, please tweet or post about the album, too.

Be the change. xo a.

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